A "can do" attitude is a MUST for SUCCESS!
Of course you can and you must believe it. Have the self confidence and that "can do attitude" to achieve that desired result.
Can you get rid of "can't"?
Without a doubt. There is little point in having all the self confidence in the world if you don't use it. To achieve success you have to get up and get it. Nobody is going to do it for you. And you can do it.
How many times do you find yourself thinking "I can't do that"?
Low and behold I bet you find that you can't do that. You have to replace that word can't in your thinking with the word can. This is one of the greatest words that will build the foundation to self confidence.
"There's no such word as can't".
How many times have you heard that phrase?
Probably hundreds if you are like me.
How strong is your self confidence when it comes to job interviews?
Do you really believe that you can get that job, that you can impress the interviewer?
You must believe it and have the self confidence that you can do the job and you can convince them of that fact. They need to know that you have that self confidence and belief in your abilities. If you don't believe it they will look at the next candidate to convince them that they can do the job.
The point is if you continuously say you can't do that then inevitably you will end up with little to show in life. You must say "I can" and then do it. The results will be so much better.
The trick is to catch yourself when the word can't comes into your thoughts or words. Making a conscious effort to change that word into can may appear to be difficult in the beginning but the more you practice the easier it becomes. With greater self confidence the word can't will soon fade from your thoughts and speech. Question the reason why you think you can't.
Is this thought irrational?
The likelihood is that it is. Seeing that there is no logical basis for negative thinking will soon turn can't into can and improve your self confidence no end.
Just one word of caution. Don't confuse the word can't with the phrase "I don't want to". There may be very many reasons why you don't want to do a particular thing and your thoughts are protecting you from making what is likely to be an obvious mistake. It could be very foolish to say you can do something when in fact you actually do not want to. Be wise to the situation.
A "can do" attitude is a must for success. Develop your self confidence based on this attitude and see how quickly success CAN follow.
To Your Success - M